Acceptance is not about being a doormat, or about settling for anything — it is about seeing what is, and not fighting with it, not wanting it to be different. IT is as IT is, and no amount of energy will make IT different, we fight only with the reflection of ourselves that we judge….


Our first communication in the world is being touched. We are touched by people that love and care for us. And it means we can live. Our ancestors lived together — often huddling close to each other for warmth. Alone, un-touched was death. Connected, touching was life. This wasn’t a judgment — it was a…