Reflections

What We Feel and What We Think Doesn’t Matter

Try this for controversial:  What we feel and what we think doesn’t matter.  Boy, I’m sure the title alone has scared some people off my web-site.  🙂 This sounds as bad as slapping a baby!  But I want to talk about manifesting for a moment, and I plan to make it clear why feelings and…


Self Acceptance

Self -acceptance means we stop suffering by our own hand.  Sometimes suffering is just that. Nothing more or less. Nothing to learn, nothing to get, nothing to do… something that makes us all human. Of course, that is not wallowing in it, but there is place for compassion — for self and for others ……


On Being Helpful

The most helpful thing we can do for others is love them where they are and model what is possible by living our own lives more fully. Loving someone right where they are can be an act of faith and courage. Faith because you must let go of your idea of where someone is supposed…


Self Acceptance And My Body

I was outside in the cold weather in my bathrobe and bedroom slippers emptying Clorox bottles into my pool system.  As I sat on the couch afterwards feeling my numb hands — and considering the silliness of what I had done, the implications starting coming on.  Not only is it very cold outside, not only…


Self love may be difficult

Self love is a bit of a misnomer.  Why do you need to love yourself?  Where does the question of self-love originate from? Do you love a sunrise?  You might be in awe.  You might feel connected and lost in some feeling or experience bigger than your mind.  You might even step out of the…